Have you heard about the little things matter a lot? As much as we want to wrinkle the nose bridge on this topic, which happens to be true. Treat yourself in the smaller forms can lead to great satisfaction. For example, buying a new pair of underwear can sometimes mean the difference between feeling low and feel good.
Raise your hand if you are guilty of having a couple (or couples) the tattered underwear. The type used for the hated work, a quick exit, “that time of the month,” laundry day or as a result of laziness. I think most of us are guilty of this and are repeat offenders. I’ll be the first to admit that if it were a crime, I’d be criminal. Why I do not take the time to decorate this part of my daily use? Why is it important?
Use of pretty or sexy lingerie is a way for me to treat myself, let me know I’m worth the effort. I’m worth wearing pretty patterns made of material that is not damaged and full of holes. Worth an extra couple of dollars on occasion. Also, when I dress sexy I feel sexy! A great team can really help with getting a certain mood. There is more than one reason, a red power tie and a suit will beat a white shirt and sweats for a job interview.
Think about it. How do you feel wearing any unloved piece of clothing? I feel indifferent. “Well, it’s clean, so I’ll put in” followed by an internal shoulder shrug. I’m not saying I think your underwear all day. The point is, no love entering this everyday motif. I have reached a habit of indifference to myself. If I do not care to treat myself well, not many others will.
Adding a little tenderness and sensuality to my closet always does me good. I like things of colors, smooth and bright. Many of us do, but it’s not like I have to go buy each week. Even I have to go to Victoria’s Secret. All I need are new pairs in good condition.
I recently saw a pair of pants Salmon in a pack of boy shorts, which were pink with some bright orange. Watch First I thought, “Who on earth does this color underwear? Why would someone wear this?” I think this every time you put them on. Yes, I wear. Especially since you have that thought makes me laugh. Every time I see that pair of boy shorts, I smile at the thought of the absurdity bright that I love.
Perhaps underwear is not your choice to spice up your personal and self adornment. Maybe it’s the lack of it. No judgment here. This concept can go for shoes, jewelry, shirts and hairstyles, whatever. The important thing is to start somewhere small. Fine more and more ways to love myself and show my worth doting on. We all are. Within reason, of course. Do not forget an element of fun as my beloved shorts salmon.
Where can start making small changes in your life edifying? Would love to hear from you in the comments. For me, I’ll start with the sexy lingerie!