Hint: The fact that your breasts are slightly uneven didn’t make the list.
First, the things we do not NOTICE: If the nails are undermining, elbows are dry, or if you have an ingrown hair somewhere along the bikini line. These are the details that usually sail right past us. We are more inclined to notice the big picture behaviors that give us clues about whether we have serious chemistry. Sparks fly? Do you turn we? Are you really excited to be naked right now? These questions are important to men, and this is what we look for answers.
1. Your Initiative
If we are doing all the work and you’re just kind of out to see what will happen next, we will think that you are not that interested. So show some emotion, huh? Take the lead in something or unbutton release. Roll over us and get to the top. Help us make this incredible moment.
2. The Way Your Body Moves
If you’re stiff, it puts a chill on the moment. We wonder if there’s a problem or if you’re feeling self-conscious. But if you’re revved up and sensual, that turns us on. We want to feel your body writhe against us. We want your chest to press against ours, to feel your thigh slide up between ours. The more you engage your entire body in the moment, the more we feel like you’re excited to be with us.
3. Your Eyes
Looking deep into ours? Are you looking at our newly naked bodies? Both options are good. What makes us uncomfortable is that if you are looking down (you have doubts?), Checking your own body (feel self-conscious?), Or looking off to the wall or ceiling (just bored?). So make sure your eyes are not telling us something we do not want. Let us know you’re pumped to be here with us.
4. Your Breath
No, I’m not talking about whether sucks (although hopefully not!). I’m talking about how it sounds. It is heavier than usual? Similarly, it is his deeper voice? These signs tell us if you are really excited. You do not have to play by panting as just running May 1-K or trying to imitate the deepest notes on an organ. But if you are getting into it, let it show. Feel his breath against our neck, sexy whisper in our ear, let us know that you can not wait for what is about to happen. Our excitement is fed from yours, so do not be afraid to be visibly on.
5. If You’re Freshly Waxed or Wearing Expensive Lingerie
Hey—no judgment if you’re not. But the prep work implies that you were thinking about sex, and we’re all for that. After all, so were we. Glad we’re on the same page here!